It is increasingly easier to look at others than at oneself.
Man largely thinks and acts guided by his own "self"; even if he is religious, in human nature he is always driven to observe more the flaws of others, meticulously highlighting all their various shades, being a keen observer of the faults of others, but distracted by his own.
The egocentric human nature always behaves the same, whether in front of God or in front of men.
Do you remember the parable of the tax collector?
Luke 18:10-13 "Two men went up to the temple to pray; one was a Pharisee, and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself: âGod, I thank You that I am not like other men â extortioners, unjust, adulterers â or even as this tax collector. I fast twice a week; I give tithes of all that I possess.â And the tax collector, standing afar off, would not so much as raise his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, âGod, be merciful to me a sinner!â I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other; for everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted."
The Pharisee always believes he is in the right and sees nothing in others but sin, but the more serious matter is that both went up to the temple to "pray," which means that their same thought should have been that of meeting the Lord, asking Him for forgiveness for their own errors and sins. Yet one of them, the Pharisee, even thanks God for not being like the "others," not even like this "tax collectorâ (the tax collector), thus he thought he was fine; heaven was ready for him. But when, really?
Jesus clearly states that the tax collector would be justified and not the Pharisee; the blind pride of the Pharisee made him see the defects and evils of others, while the tax collector, in his humility, recognized his own state, not looking at others, but delving within himself, did not dare to raise his eyes to heaven.
Jesus came for sinners, not for the righteous, Matthew 9:13 (or for those who believe themselves to be such). In fact, in Luke 7:34, He says: âThe Son of Man has come eating and drinking, and you say, âLook, a glutton and a winebibber, a friend of tax collectors and sinners!ââ
Whom do you want to resemble, brother and/or friend, the Pharisee or the tax collector?
Whom do you want to follow, Jesus or your "self"?
Jesus is still waiting, and He has waited until now, but how much longer do you think you have on this earth?
The Holy Spirit is ready to take the place of your "self" in your heart; He wants to work in you, mold you like clay in the hands of the potter. He wants you to be a true child of God, not in words, but in deeds and reality. And then you will no longer think about looking at the flaws of others, you will no longer think about accusing others, but you will increasingly look at yourself, praying for others, for their salvation in Christ Jesus our Lord, blessed forever. Amen.